Pick up dating
Ive never been particularly bad at socializing with women, but it has always been in the confines of my circle of friends or in class, etc, NEVER approaching a woman on the street that I found attractive. You get to see the routines right-before-your-eyes.And all the techniques I'd been reading about, finally made sense.By the time she walks out the door, she has a “girl swagger” borne from “knowing she looks good.” Even an ugly, fat girl’s sense of worth will be a few clicks higher after donning her costume.This is worsened by being with a group of girlfriends who are all dressed that way and constantly validate each other’s “sexiness” by telling one another, successfully get noticed through attention-whoring, and then repeatedly reject guys who are fawning attention on them.There’s a fine line between a poorly executed date, where the girl never contacts you again, and a successful one, where you have sex with the girl or situate things so it can happen on a subsequent date.
The exception is a retail environment, where a group may temporary split up to browse the shelves, but even this is rare.
"I guess my involvement into the dating community started out of frustation from being in my late 20s and not being able to meet the amount of women I really wanted to.
I promised myself I would do anything to get this fear of approaching women resolved.
But getting a girl to go out with you doesn’t mean your hard work is over; you’ve merely moved into the next level of the video game, which carries with it its own set of enemies and bosses.
Unlike your previous interactions with the girl, the date is a complex, exchange with many variables to consider.
Generally speaking, you will have more success with individual girls, though exceptions do occur.